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Stories She Shared About she shared about the stories she shared about her childhood had me wondering if I had Aviation Logistics: The Dynamic Partnership of Air Freight and Supply Chain ever abandoned my children in spirit from a look of disappointment from my silence from not comforting them when they needed me It hurt to think that maybe at times I did and thatven though 90% of the time I might not have or R High Performance Programming even 99% of the time I didn tone time 1% could benough to shift a child s self worth Brene s story was so powerful I replayed the audiobook from the beginning to have Paul hear this story Paul continued listening for a couple of hours since he s not done I guess I m just going to buy it after all The topics themes in Braving the Wilderness are brilliant tools of gold she s not preaching she s presenting years of research from SOCIAL STUDIES Her work presented in this book is AT LEAST ngaging She has our full attentionThe political issues issues she talks about ways in which we divide tc are also interesting Brene is an animated spokeswoman I happen to agree with the benefits the concepts she speaks of learning to be comfortable with being uncomfortablesharing our vulnerability and being true to ourselves rather than trying to fit in It can be very difficult to bring up uncomfortable issues in our relationships we make mistakes don t always do it right but with practice we get better By avoiding confrontation in order to feel comfortable nothing gets accomplished and inside we really don t feel any better Brene details Scala for Java Developers effective ways that help support tricky situations we all face in lifeNot from winging a good ideashe speaks from years of THAT RESEARCH AGAIN Paul my husband wasually as impressed with Brene Brown on this Audiobook as I was Her dedication to research shows and her authenticity is clear Personal value isn t instantly measurable but it couldn t possibly be so instead its a little at a time As we listen and xplore the things Brene presents we are slowly taking in alternative ffective ways to support joy satisfaction inspiration Vermeer to Eternity empowerment and love with ourselves and others Brene Brown is anxcellent gifted speaker Easy on the Heaven to Betsy ears Brene Brown s new book Braving The Wilderness is her most vital and necessary book yet The book s subject is how to build and maintain connections and a sense of belonging while also staying true to ourselves and our beliefs Through her research studies personalxperiences and case studies combined with her remarkable perceptiveness and wisdom she provides So B. It essential directions through the wilderness of loneliness and disconnection In today s climate of divisiveness and separation this is a bookveryone should read But it s not some bitter medicine to swallow As Cabaret evidenced by her massively popular TED talks and books her writing style and the accompanying research resonate with people and feed a real hunger for understanding hope and healing Highly recommendedThank you to Random House and NetGalley for an advance copy of this book She phoned this one in There s good stuff in here because she s awesome but there s notnough to warrant a new book I do wish she would try again to think through tribe and inclusion Her insights are good and useful but there is no coherent theory or story here Sorry Brene Brown you lost me on this one I love you but all I could think throughout this was asy for you to say white middle class Christian lady I picked up this book because it was listed as a must read book by someone I respect and whose tastes are similar to mine I went to it completely blind and when the author mentioned Harry Potter and JK Rowling in the opening chapter I knew I was going to like it The mark of a wild heart is living out the paradox of love in our lives It s the ability to be tough and tender xcited and scared brave and afraid all in the same moment It s showing up in our vulnerability and our courage being both fierce and kind The book xamines the meaning of belonging what does it mean How do you achieve it Should you seek it It also xplores other topics such as solitude pain love and community The author is a social scientist who shares with us her Trading Places: The Netherlandish Merchants in Early Modern Venice experiences and insightsI m glad I picked up this title If you want to learn about the author Bren Brown you can watch her TED Talk video The Power of Vulnerability EDIT forgot to mention I listened to the audiobook which is narrated by the author I like it when authors read their own books Also there is a HUGE Harry Potter spoiler book 6 view spoiler hide spoiler Refreshing Honestly it wasxactly what I needed I love that the author doesn t take sides she just speaks the data It definitely had an impact on my midset. Elves and brave the wilderness of uncertainty and criticism But true belonging is not something we negotiate or accomplish with others; it's a daily practice that demands integrity and authenticity It's a personal commitment that we carry in our hearts Brown offers us the clarity and courage we need to find our way back to ourselves and to En plein coeur each other And that path cuts right through the wilderness Brown writes The wilderness is an untamed unpredictable place of solitude and searching It is a place as dangerous as it is breathtaking a place as sought after as it is feared But it turns out to be the place of true belonging and it's the bravest and most sacred place you willver stand.
Brené Brown ↠ 9 summaryI gave this book five stars because as usual Brown has done her research and she is a masterful storyteller These are the two passions of my life research and storytellingI m a Licensed Professional Counselor and an author so I devour Brown s books My favorite is The Power of Vulnerability I have watched her TED talks probably a hundred times I tell The Bookshop on the Shore every one of my clients to read her books and watch her videos I m a huge fanHowever this book wasn t fun or pleasurable the way her other books have been I listened on Audible and felt pained much of the time Part of that is because I identify with the ways I ve ard up after the 2016lection I lean conservative and have tried to share my views with civility and have always Dance Real Slow encouraged people to respectfully share theirs Yet I ve been calledvery name you could imagine Sadly the worst offenses came from my Christian brothers and sisters who see things differently One of the cruelest people was an author who wrote a book that I purchased "about how we need to listen to peoples stories so we can "how we need to listen to peoples stories so we can their points of view Oh the irony I finally reached a place where I lumped all of them into a group of haters I stopped listening and stopped caring what the opposing side had to sayWith that as my history I found Brown s research about dehumanization helpful I needed her information about what helps people who are in heated debatesWhen I m in the counseling setting this is The Art of Memoir easy for me to do I love to hear all sorts of viewsven ones I disagree with I want to know how and why people see the world the way they do But The Day Christ Was Born: The True Account of the First 24 Hours of Jesus's Life experiencing our country so divided I admit I had ard up and sided upI will definitely seek to apply parts of Brown s book to my life I m a fan of Brown s work and TED talk but this was just okay I don t think she hadnough pulled togetherthought through for a full release so it feels not as complete As if rushed for a deadlineI like the ideas of being brave with one s conviction and willing to put yourself out there ven if you re alone to stand up for what you believe but this still felt very white and from a protected majority spaceTwo pieces that frustrated meA At one point Brown tells the story of a pastor that speaks up for LGBT rights This story is to help illustrate how one ven in the face of the potentially homophobic christian community they serve they are will to stand up in support of others This was described as Bravery which it is for those who are in a community that ncourages you to stay uiet in your majority comfortWhat would have also been nice is to pair stories of people coming from majoritydominant culture "Along With Those Who Have "with those who have to break out into the wilderness much much arlier out of necessity because they are NOT the majority Because they are ueer or disabled are not white PostgreSQL Server Programming - Second Edition etc The narrative around bravery is different when it feels less like a choice but it s no less Brave The focusing on the straight pastor supporting LGBT rights but not including a story of an actual LGBT person alongside it felt performative for the sake of the narrative Not that the pastor is performative Just how her story is being used here At one point those Braving the Wilderness are likened to being at a outdoor dance party like I want to go to There the place where people are free dancing and Brave but without also giving time to those that are out there dancing because For Real they have Zero choice and had not been given the option to go Inside So some are out in the Wilderness making the best of what that means and yes sometimes that means dancing Some might be out in the wilderness and are sad or lonely or are just doing their laundry but they re still in the Wilderness because they are living their Non Majority lives It felt like for Majority people like say straight people white people abled people they can Choose the Wilderness and then have the cool option of touristing to the Wilderness Dance Party but then still not really fathom the chasm the rests between those that Choose to go back Inside like when it gets cold or really really hard and those that still have to be outside no matter whatB The second point that really frustrated me was the call for civility in these discussions as we Brave the Wilderness This part felt really really White Lady Liberal Feminism Like If only you told me that criticism about my behavior in a nicer tone or if you did it in a compliment sandwich I would likely listen to you tell me about that racist thing I just did I think calling for people to be civil is fine Let s be nice toach other sure BUT if it s being pushed and also it s not discussed how calls for civi. #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER A timely and important new book that challenges verything we think we know about cultivating true belonging in our communities organizations and culture from the #1 bestselling author of Rising Strong Daring Greatly and The Gifts of ImperfectionTrue belonging doesn't reuire us to change who we are It reuires us to be who we are Social scientist Brene Brown PhD LMSW has sparked a global conversation about the xperiences that bring meaning to our lives The Taste of Night (Signs of the Zodiac, experiences of courage vulnerability love belonging shame andmpathy In Braving the Wilderness Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarization With her trademark mix of Lity are often weaponized by white people specially White Women as "a way to control the conversation and STILL nd up oppressing others I feel like white people specially and I m "way to control the conversation and STILL nd up oppressing others I feel like white people The Road From Home: The Story Of An Armenian Girl especially and I m white woman need to walk into those Let s be civil conversations with a full understanding of how we abuse those specific calls to action for our own favor to protect us make us less uncomfortable and put the burden on others to have to adjust to what we think is Real Civil Discourse I found Brown s call for civility without cautioning about how that argument often abuses people of color to be troublingSo for me as a ueer disabled person I found this book is probably nicer and inspiring if you re coming from the Majority space Where it can feel novelscary to stand up for someone who is different than you If you re coming from a not majority space though it may not feel as connected as you may wish it to beMy last point that frustrated me is that I wish Brown showed data Often she writes The data showed us that people feel like X but never lists concrete data it s very general about big points and it normally made me wish for something slightly heavier on the science part of social science I listened to the audio version and thought Brown did a fine job on the narration I like her voice so it was nice to listen to This book came to me at just the right time I found it meaningful heartfelt and the themes of belonging and being brave really resonated with me I know Bren Brown has uite the cult following but this was the first book of hers I have seriously read A few years ago I had The Gifts of Imperfection foisted on me at work and I was underwhelmed by the book andnded up hate skimming it A few friends had loved Daring Greatly and now that I have read and appreciated Braving the Wilderness I m ready to give another Brown book a tryHowever I will admit this isn t a perfect book Brown tells a lot of stories both hers and from friends and from her research in social work but she repeats her themes a lot and she doesn t give many specific details from her actual research I was trying to describe this book to my husband and struggled to accurately characterize it It s part self help part memoir part psychology and part inspirational The reason this book spoke to me however was because the discussion about the need to belong was so impactful that I texted several friends about the book It s a good book to read during these divisive political times and I would recommend this book to anyone trying to survive the Trump ra with their mental health intactFavorite uoteStop walking through the world looking for confirmation that you don t belong You will always find it because you ve made that your mission Stop scouring people s faces for vidence that you re not nough You will always find it because you ve made that your goal True belonging and self worth are not goods we don t negotiate their value with the world The truth about who we are lives in our hearts Our call to courage is to protect our wild heart against constant valuation Hannah Montana: The Movie especially our own No one belongs here than you Huge disappointment My partner who read the book with me pointed out that Brown mentions that she has a problem with not giving uninformed opinions on political topics but then she goes and doesxactly that with much of this book This is white liberal centrist lady kumbaya bullshit She doesn t seem to understand how systemic violence works or oppression There s an xtreme amount of false uivalency in the book Calling trump a pig is not at all similar to him dehumanizing women Additionally the book was xtremely smug and prescriptive For people who are actively ngaged in resisting fascism and state violence I would definitely skip this book Library overdrive Audiobook read by Breen Brown Note I njoyed this so much that I m considering buying the AudiobookThere may be thousands of people around the world who are huge fansand ven though I had read one of her books wasn t all that impressed and later listened to one of her Audiobook s I was much impressed I still didn t consider myself a fan of her work and uite frankly I really didn t really get what her deal was in the world In fact I didn t Cardiovascular Pet: Current Concepts even know what she looked like until I read this book which lead me to research her a little A semi famous very successful social scientist called herself a Research Storyteller It s a perfect way to describe Brene Brown By the way I love her first name BreneI admit after listening to this Audiobook I m in I m a fan of the work she s doing The way she talked about belonging as opposed to beingxcluded had me looking at this topic Esearch storytelling and honesty Brown
WILL AGAIN CHANGE THE CULTURAL CONVERSATIONagain change the cultural conversation mapping a clear path to true belongingBrown argues that we're xperiencing a spiritual crisis of disconnection and introduces four practices of true belonging that challenge verything we believe about ourselves and A Companion to Peter Martyr Vermigli each other She writes True belonging reuires us to believe in and belong to ourselves so fully that we can find sacredness both in being a part of something and in standing alone when necessary But in a culture that's rife with perfectionism and pleasing and with therosion of civility it's asy to stay uiet hide in our ideological bunkers or fit in rather than show up as our true ,